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The greatest assets are people

My father always says that America squanders its greatest asset: the people.

People are the greatest asset. Treat people with respect and it comes back to you.

“Karen, nothing is worth sacrificing your dignity and self-respect.” – Suzanne Somers in Step by Step (1991-1998)

The complete Step by Step series is currently streaming on Hulu for fans of the show, just fyi.

I learned this valuable lesson about respect many years ago when I was growing up. I was watching several different television shows, but a few stood out. They were ALF, Alvin and the Chipmunks, Amazing Stories, Family Matters, Mr. Belvedere, Punky Brewster and The A- team.

ALF 

Alf was a television show about an alien that aired on NBC from 1986-1990 and was also turned into an animated series twice; The Animated Series (1987-1988) and Alf Tales (1988-1989). From this show I learned to not judge people by what they look like, but by what’s on the inside, respect for others, and that it is not good to be petty.

ALVIN AND THE CHIPMUNKS

Alvin and the Chipmunks was an animated cartoon series that aired on NBC from 1983-1990. In the show, the boys learn life lessons that they pass on to the viewers. I remember that doing the right thing is its own reward and bullies never prosper in the long run. The very 1st episode entitled “The C-Team” aired on September 17, 1983.

In this first episode, the boys encounter bullies and they seek out Mr. T to ask for advice and help. Even though Mr. T was extremely busy, as in real life he was doing The A-Team live action and an animated cartoon series called Mister T (1983-1986), on the show he stopped what he was doing to help the Chipmunks. It taught me that an adult should take to the time to help and inspire children to do the right thing and there is value in teamwork.

AMAZING STORIES

Amazing Stories was an anthology series created by Steven Spielberg, that featured fantasy stories that aired on NBC for two seasons from 1985-1987. My absolute favorite episode is the one entitled “Gather Ye Acorns” and it starred Mark Hamill aka “Luke Skywalker” from “Star Wars” fame.

In this story, as a young boy, he decides to keep all his possessions as one day he was told they will make him a fortune. Little did he know it would take about 50 years or so to happen.

However, instead of giving into despair completely and hurting others, he took ownership of his decisions and even when he was down to his last dollar he still gifted a woman one of his most prized possessions given to him by his grandmother. He told her he would give her a beautiful vase for a beautiful lady. She offered to buy it from him after inquiring if he would sell it to her. This woman would end up writing him a check for $10,000. As the vase was a very rare one, and made during the 1930’s. His charm, attitude, and humility caused his darkest hour to turn into his greatest triumph.

If you are noticing a theme here with NBC cranking out and airing some great shows, you are not alone. NBC must be making a mint from all those residuals.

But I digress. Let’s get back to the subject at hand.

FAMILY MATTERS

Family Matters was a sitcom that ran for nine seasons from 1989-1998 on ABC and the last season on CBS. The show had many themes that kids and young adults deal with such as peer pressure, bullying, and drugs. The show is known for its nerdy breakout character Steve Urkel who would always show the audience that doing the right thing was always the right thing to do. He always stood up for the little guy, never gave into peer pressure or bullying of any kind, and always defended himself from anyone who would try to do him harm.

I learned this and that being smart could be an asset because Urkel was a science nerd and this helped him navigate the troubles in life, but he had a heart of gold and eventually won the heart of the woman he loved; Laura Winslow.

MR. BELVEDERE

Mr. Belvedere was a sitcom that aired on ABC from 1985-1990 and ran for six seasons. The title character of the show was always helping the family he was employed for with various moral or ethical dilemmas. And at the end of every episode, he wrote in a journal the happenings of the day and the lessons he learned. This is part of what inspired me to write. I still keep a journal and to do list to this day. That’s how I am able to keep up with writing content for this blog. When I am inspired: I write it down.

 

PUNKY BREWSTER

Punky Brewster was a sitcom about a young girl being raised by a foster parent named Henry than ran on NBC for 4 seasons from 1984-1986. The show as also turned into an animated series (as was the thing to do back in the 80’s and 90’s) called It’s Punky Brewster (1985-1986). I saw the difference a foster parent could make in a kid’s life. They had so much love for each other. It inspires me to this day to be gracious, kind, and generous to others because you can make a difference.

THE A-TEAM

The A-Team was a television series that ran for five seasons on NBC from (1983-1987). The A-Team were members of a fictional United Sates Special Forces unit. What I liked about the show was the teamwork and camaraderie between the characters and their integrity. Although the show was fiction, I still remember what the real United States Army Special Forces motto is: De Oppresso Liber, which is Latin for to liberate the oppressed. Basically, you help those in need who cannot help themselves.

So, if you decide to pursue wealth, it is best to make sure you know why you are doing it and what you want to accomplish.

You cannot just save money as it has to circulate so that the world keeps moving. Circulating does not mean spending, but that money should be managed properly, accounted for, and readily available for others to use. Investing is the way to do this.

For example, investing $100,000 into stocks that yield an 8% rate of return could net you $1,000,000 in 30 years without adding another cent. That’s right, a cool million bucks just for breathing and letting your money stay put!

Remember this, whatever you choose to do, whether it is about fame, money, acting, dancing, singing, or donating, nothing is worth sacrificing your dignity and self-respect.

I say choose wisely. And I pity the fool who chooses money over people. Sorry, had to say it.

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